By Damilola Adeyera
Yoruba Language: Ọbẹ̀ àpọ̀n tó kọ̀ tí kò yọ̀ ló múni gbómi ilá kaná
Meaning:
An àpọ̀n soup that refuses to draw as it ought to compels the preparation of an alternative okra soup, whose capacity to draw is assured.
What’s the knowledge?
This proverb serves as advisory wisdom and counsel on the importance of knowing when to cut one’s losses. When a business strategy, relationship, or project proves unviable despite enormous effort, time, and substantial investment, it is often wiser to discontinue the pursuit and redirect one’s resources toward an endeavour with a greater possibility of success.
Persistence is admirable, but persistence without discernment can become costly stubbornness. Knowing when to withdraw is not necessarily a sign of weakness or failure; it can be an expression of wisdom, maturity, and strategic thinking. Sometimes, the courage to let go creates the space needed for better opportunities to emerge.
This is a timeless recipe for sensible withdrawal, greater peace, wiser allocation of resources, and more predictable progress. Not every battle must be won, and not every investment must be recovered. Sometimes, the smartest victory is knowing when to walk away.
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